I love the smell of your bed- an AXCITE journey

[admin]

I love your posts. Reads like it should be in Maxim.

[adawg]

Yea honeslty, the post are very well written and the story was great! Thats awesome it works soo well for you, keep us posted!!

[biceps]

Love your posts man! Good to see you back on here, and thanks for the updates

[JHayward]

Agreed... they definitely sound like they shud be in a maxim article haha

[UNCnate]

I love your posts. Reads like it should be in Maxim.

New advertising idea perhaps.

[eastcoasterlm]

Thanks for all the props guys, much respect. I'll have to read a maxim article I always just look at the pictures !

Wanted to share to you some information on of course girls, but how your guy friends can weigh you down, if you don't know how to take what they tell you the right way. And why I prefer to keep my sex life more or less to myself, I'll tell my female friends, but my guy friends unless they ask I don't tell.

Its funny how human nature works, it truly is. As people, and as guys we rationalize EVERYTHING. What does this mean? I'll give you an example.

me: dude how was your weekend , did you bring back ( add in random girl name, lets say jen)
guy: yea dude I brought jen back to my crib, it was chill.
me: nice man did you close ( get laid)
guy: nah man I was too tired/ she wasn't hot enough/ we didn't click etc.

So many times I hear guys give reasons why they didn't do what they wanted. Hell I do it ALL the time. Theres a girl in a bar I want to talk to, but somehow I talk myself out of it, and then RATIONALIZE to myself that she wasn't hot enough, or that she has a bf or whatever.....Why do guys do this? Its simple, Guys have big ego's and we do whatever we can to protect them. We don't want to "harm" our ego, and the thought that a girl could reject us tells our ego to BAIL, don't talk to her ! In turn we started to feel bad that we didn't have the balls to talk to her, but our good old friend EGO comes to rationalize to us why we didn't, and in the end to make us feel better and that it does.

Think of it like this, you and your ego are sitting on the island, there a rough sea that you'd have to swim through to make it to the other island, full of girls. But your ego says to you, hey man we are cool here, you don't need any girls, your having fun here, don't get in the water you may drown. In reality some of you may be totally happy on the island alone, I for one though would prefer to take the swim, take the chance that my ego will crash and burn. In the end I may fail, and I may get what i wanted, but at least you put your ego aside and tried. The ego, and YOURSELF is without a doubt the HARDEST thing to over come when talking to, meeting, and getting with girls. Once you learn to deal with your ego, and not let it control you, girls will become much easier to approach.

So eastcoasterlm, how do my guy friends come into play on this. Well basically when I first started learning about pick up, getting girls etc I'd tell my friends. heres what happens

me: dude I've been reading this...........and it makes sense we should totally try it.
guy: haha man why are you reading that crap
me: lets get real here guys, we are all not like big pimps
guy: dude trust me, any time I wanted a girl I could get a girl. remember ash? i saw her I wanted her, I got her. Remember Megan like uhhh 4 years ago ( yes guys have told me this, insert laughter) I saw her, I wanted her, I got her, man I can't loose !

They are just rationalizing that they are good with women, there ego is protecting them enough said

Next

me: dude that girl from last week, is being a flake she never returned my call.
guy: HAHA bro, I NEVER get stood up ! hahahaha

Hmm of course you never got stood up, the only girls numbers that you ever got where basically throwing themselves at you. That is to me, the majority of guys, and why am I telling you thing? basically beacuse more often or not to get with girls, you have to go against what most guys do, and sometimes it will go against your friends views and they will give you shit for it. Hopefully by now you can just laugh to yourself when they do it, and not let it brother you. Don't let them impose there ego and social standers on you. I'm not saying omg your friends are hurting your game loose them, not at all. Just be aware of whats going on.

[JohnnyB]

Thanks man good to know a few of you are reading.

Ey eastcoaster, lotsa us reading! Im the biggest reader and non-writer in here tho but hey, your posting is some sweet stuff!

[eastcoasterlm]

well well well time for an Axcite update

The following story can be summed up if your to lazy to read...

and I quote, eastcoasterlm....."uhhhmmm I think I want to do you"


Went to popular spot downtown, relaxing with some guys and a few girls enjoying my self as usual. On a trip to the bathroom I walked passed the girl from post # 15, yes the true ten that every guy stops, and talks about but doesn't have the balls to say shit too. I didn't even notice her, she had a crowd of guys talking to her, but as I walk past I feel a tap on my shoulder. I turn around stand there and hold eye contact for a good 5 secs until I knew I had her. Turned around and continued walking, I wasn't about to compete with a bunch of guys, there was no need to. Coming back by her after the bathroom, we hold eye contact again and I made a RAR tiger hand sign to her. I continued walking back to my friends.

Well a good 30 mins goes by, I'm having fun doing my thing and I get a tap on my shoulder, my ten has come back to talk to me. We talk for a few mins, we are touchy with each other and I hear the lovely catch phrase .... " I think i want to do you" well I play it cool and continue talking, knowing I couldn't make anything happen as I had a full car of drunk girls and guys to take back. Grab her phone number, and name at the same time ( I always seem to get numbers and forget to get names lol)ohh and made her kiss me on the check as always. As she was leaving she said: "I'm not that old ! you better call me ! with like ill kill you if you don't tone" I find this TOO funny beacuse just two weeks ago she was telling me that i was two young, but since I held my ground and didn't put up with her BS, she had to make the point that she wasn't too old.

With all that being said, I've never had a girl say that to me that quick, in total we had 5 mins of convo two weeks ago, and she told me this within a min after coming to talk to me. So one must pose the question, is it your game that's getting better, or the help of axcite? Right now I can say yes my game is getting better, but hell a RESPONSE like that, was generate so so quickly, with instant attraction.........something else def has to come into play, and really feel axcite has a role. Only time will tell , if I keep getting responses like this, I can't possibly think of ever not using axcite.

Untill next time, Cheers

[eastcoasterlm]

Eastcoasterlm where have you been?

Well guys I have been all over the country on vacation and doing my thing. I didn't want to let this thread die, and since I sprayed the LAST of the axcite a few weeks ago( and well I ended on a bang, actually a few bangs I wanted to tell you guys the story.

I have been down in FL, I went to a DJ tiesto concert dec 30th in Tampa. I went alone, as I don't have friends in Tampa, and I love tiesto and had to see him again ( saw him the day before in Orlando). Anyways walk into the venue, super pumped and excited for my show, I was in a killer mood and it showed. Walked up the the bar to get a drink, and smiled at the girl next to me, we started talking, turns out she loves tecnho, she is a go go dancer tho not dancing that night ( read shes hot). We hit it off, I knew she was attracted to me in about 30 secs, she got close....make out...enjoy the rest of the night at the concert and damn well knew she'd be taking me home. ( remember I don't even live in this town, had no place to stay as is). She told me more then I can count how she never does this, blah blah blah, she wouldn't have sex blah blah blah. Well I said I would never go into details, but lets just say before I left her house the next day, we had fun 5 times

Basically to sum it up, walk in brand new bar alone, a girl feels a " connection" with me she said instantly and she didn't know why, and then well the rest is history.

So you are most likely asking if I have talked to her sense, or if I went back for seconds, well believe it or not I'm pretty sure shes engaged, or at least seeing someone for a long time. She said she had been dating a guy ( engaged to him) for 6 years, but they " just broke up" aka girl code for don't ask me questions. Which I didn't anyways because a girls sexual history is completely arbitrary and I don't have double standards as I like a girl that knows what she wants.

Thus ends my adventure with axcite, I will without a doubt buy more when my old polo black runs out, as well it smells amazing, and I had way to many freaky " connections" that happend stupidly fast. Untill next time cheers.


Btw if ANYONE has any girl problems, questions, whatever. Ask me,in this thread I'd be more then happy to help and my thoughts on girls have changed 100% in the last few months so my answers will be fresh.


cheers-

[theshaman]

hey man good stuff. i love this stuff too

[alphabeast]

Axcite was very good, will compare it to chikara.

[eastcoasterlm]

Yes its kickass I miss it already !!

If you guys want me to keep this thread alive with more info let me know and I will rack my brain for some topics.
What would you like next ?

- Why looks don't matter?

-Why you can't approach ever girl every time, even when you want to.

- How to turn your mind off, and have epic results with women

Pick one, Cheers

[jgodish]

-Why you can't approach ever girl every time, even when you want to.

That topic seems pretty intriguing to me!

[eastcoasterlm]

we have one vote woot ! I will give it a few more days, guys drop a message with what seems cool to you!!

cheers

[JnyIV]

i live in ocala, not to far from tampa!!