how do you hit on women at the gym?

[LucyLulu]

I see a ring on that finger lucy, you're married and still want to be hit on at the gym, shame shame.

Please! Nothing wrong with being hit on as long as I don't return it. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I don't need an ego boost every now and then.

And please refer to the editted version of my previous post to clear up any confusion.

[jim623]

Please! Nothing wrong with being hit on as long as I don't return it. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I don't need an ego boost every now and then.

And please refer to the editted version of my previous post to clear up any confusion.

I'm just messing with you lucy, I still like to look at the desert menu too!

[LucyLulu]

Hmm.. this weekend I will be running around chasing my kids, wishing I were at the gym and wishing my husband didn't have to work all weekend!

I kinda felt weird coming into the "spanish-fly" area of the board but when I saw that thread title on the main page I was beyond curious!
Thanks for the welcome and I hope to be able to learn alot about fitness and nutrition here. After smoking for 15 yrs (I've been quit 10 weeks!), and sitting in front of a computer for hours a day editting, I need some help with toning and my health in general.

So... LucyLulu.... what are you doing this weekend?

Seriously, thanks for that insight!!! We really value it. Having more ladies around to combat this "testoster-zone" is refreshing...especially in topics like these!! If you'd like to add your input on "lady matters" anytime, I won't stop ya!! Good going!!

btw... hair pulled back and make-up-less is always better. ...right up there with curlers! yes, serious!

[LucyLulu]

I'm just messing with you lucy, I still like to look at the desert menu too!

LOL, I hope so! I'd hope someone would stop to check my pulse on the day I quit looking!

[TiM]

Good for you - on all aspects there! Married 5 yrs and my li'l girl turns 1 today. And really good job with the quit. It's tough...VERY tough. I don't think the initial quit is nearly as bad as maintaining a non-smoking relationship with yourself. Many fail. I did. But it's a mistake you pay for in the end, I guess. Nobody is perfect (although I'm close, of course), but the best we can do is try. You and I, as well as everyone else here, have the goals to get "better" in some way. Whether you seek nutrition or training advice, or just want a friendly ear to hear what you have to say, or even someone to tell you that it's ok that you slipped up and motivate you back on track, we're here for ya. The AX forum folk aren't just strangers typing to eachother all day long. Once you're in, it's a family and we really take care of eachother well.

Just have to say this to add to the previous banter with Jim... "Just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu!!!" WOO HOOOO!!!

[jim623]

my li'l girl turns 1 today.

This isn't the best tread for a precisious baby girl ,but since we're already on the subject,
"HAPPY BIRTHDAY IZZY"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[thesinner]

I see a ring on that finger lucy, you're married and still want to be hit on at the gym, shame shame.

Take that off in the gym.

The knurl on a dumbbell or barbell could scratch or leave an imprint on it.

[kimswollwilliams]

i gotta ask lucylulu, are those multi color curlers in your hair in your avatar? if so very festive.. as far as the hitting on women in the gym, not that i do that, (anymore) got a GREAT gf, but i always kinda just tried to be in the same general area as anyone i might find attractive, then see if they were noticing me as well, then would just play it by ear..and go slowly, a compliment and a smile, then move on... you know, kind of plant the seed so to speak.. lol...

[adawg]

I really do my best to keep it outside the gym, i mean dont get me wrong my head may turn a couple times but i try an stay focused on my workout and i feel if i was thinking about how i could pick up this good lookin girl then im going to be a lot less focused on what im there to do.

[jim623]

I really do my best to keep it outside the gym, i mean dont get me wrong my head may turn a couple times but i try an stay focused on my workout and i feel if i was thinking about how i could pick up this good lookin girl then im going to be a lot less focused on what im there to do.

That's the attitude I have right there, I go to the gym for me and me only. Besides all the good looking girls at my gym are too young for me anyway. The ones my age aren't worth looking at.

[*big D*]

Well its nice to see women whilst training im sure, put a smile on your face if things are going badly with the weights. My gym however has kept it to men only so I dont see women whilst im there.

[adawg]

Well its nice to see women whilst training im sure, put a smile on your face if things are going badly with the weights. My gym however has kept it to men only so I dont see women whilst im there.

I dont think i would like that very much, i dont think about picking up girl but theres something about having a pretty girl around thats pretty motivating. Though atleast you dont have to be worried about being distracted haha.

[TomtheAzn88]

Ya I don't think I have ever hit on a girl at the gym. Just feels out of place.
On a side note though this past week I did workout with this VERY SEXY girl BUT she has a boyfriend but she sure helped motivation wise when I could concentrate

[freighttrain09]

haha ur there to lift not pick up haha but if u have to just be urself man the same way you would any other time ..............later bro