how do you hit on women at the gym?

[marcink99]

lets say they are runing at the treadmill listening to there mp3 players.Also do pheromones work at the gym?

[theshaman]

Ask her for a spot on something!

[JohnnyB]

If she`s running on a treadmill, only way out is getting on the treadmill next to her. Most of the ladies likes a man who`s got the balls to do some solid cardio aswell

When established on treadmill, make something happen to lead to conversation. Anything to say something out to break the initial ice. Use something pertinent to the situation there and then.

Second, as shaman said, you could see if she ever ventures into the weights area, of which you can compliment her good excellent form, or ask her for a spot

I saw this dude once, trying the same thing when a hottie was with the weights, but he was acting all Bob Cicherillo and told her "hey you know thats not how you do it, let me show you.. wanna let me show you?".. aaaand, she was gone

[TiM]

I'm going to go ahead and buck the system on this one and be contrary...

I'm not so sure that hitting on a woman at the gym is the best idea. Typically they are there to get the job done and get out, not so much to fraternize with the local meat. Any woman I've ever known has been pretty self-conscious when it comes to exercising and being all sweaty. It's a rare breed that can get all sweated up and then still have the patience or will to be flirted with, let alone flirted with successfully. As much as we think a hot body glistening in sweat with just the right parts moving just the right way on the treadmill or eliptical is one of the most beautiful sites in the world, the lady might not think so.

Pheromones may have an affect, if they are susceptible to them at the time. For me, using AXcite at the gym didn't help much (not that I'm any sort of Casanova here), but the affect on me was pretty contrary to the attitude I needed to be in in order to have a good lift. It calms me down, and does so for other males. In the gym, I want rage and AXcite was my kryptonite!

But personally, if I wanted to hit on a woman in the gym, all I'd do is lift harder, look more "swole" and walk by. Either they look or not. I've still got no game whatsoever, but atleast if I catch them looking back, it makes me want to lift that much harder!

[JohnnyB]

Agreed with Tim in one way, but from personal experience, I know that it can be done. Because I have done it myself, twice

So it is doable, but you need the right girl, and the right setting. Its a good point about the sweaty work at the treadmill, its not the best place. My two times of success has been in the weight-machine department of the gym, and somewhat late at night.

Your best bet if she`s in the middle of a solid run is a Tim said, walk by with the pump and try to look swole If she looks at you, you may have put in some solid stocks for a future meet-up at the pub, if not, atleast you tried and can move on.

[theshaman]

Yeah most women like to be hit on at the mall or at the beach, someplace where you socialize, not at work or doing work in the gym.

[TiM]

Now I know I've read the title of this thread about a dozen times today, but for some reason coming back from lunch, I read it again as meaning "how do you hit women...". That's just wrong! Shame on you!!!

[UNCnate]

lets say they are runing at the treadmill listening to there mp3 players.Also do pheromones work at the gym?

Its hard to hit on girls while they're at the gym, especially on the treadmills with headphones in.

Your best bet from my experience is to catch them in the hall, or "coincidentally" go to fill your water bottle up at the same time as them, things like that.

[biceps]

Hitting on a girl at the gym is all about waiting for that perfect opportunity, and it may takes weeks for the right moment. I would never ask a girl to spot me or say something about her form. That directly communicates sexual interest in her, showing her that you're needy, and just like every other guy that has approached her.

Here is an example of a perfect moment. I was killing tricep pushdowns on a double sided cable machine one day. This hottie came up and started using the other side. In between was a pull up bar, and this sweaty ass, smelly dude came walking right up in between us, stank up the space, and started doing pull ups as if we didn't exist. When he was done he left, and I made eye contact with the girl and had a shimmer of a smile on my face. She did too. I looked up and pointed at the sweat dripping off the pull up handles and said to her, "Now that's gross!" and she started laughing. Then we started talking

My point is that my comment didn't communicate to her that I was sexually interested in her. I made her laugh. It was different than every other guy that had approached her there before, and she gladly welcomed the interaction.

Never hit on a woman until she has earned it. Guys do this too freely and they are not a challenge to women. Women like challenges. So, wait for that perfect moment, make whatever funny, non-sexual comment about whatever situation arises, and have fun

[bigpetefox]

Women hit on me at my gym all the time....





























I'm usually wearing muay thai pads when they do.. I teach basic strikes and submissions to afew clients of mine..

[ntense]

Don't forget, women talk. Hit on too many women and end up with a bad rep, then none of them will want anything to do with you.

[admin]

Yes I would probably never hit on a women on a treadmill. She is trying to get a job done, not be hit on.

Listen to Biceps above.....its good info that works.

[LucyLulu]

I was browsing the forum trying to get info on a supplement and came across this thread. I just had to register so I could give you all at least ONE girls opinion on this!

Personally, I would love to get hit on at the gym. At least by a guy who looks like he puts some time in and not the guy who just brushed the cheeto crumbs off his shirt before walking in the door. My reasoning? If a guy is into being healthy and fit, he most likely would be into a healthy and fit women. Why do we girls put in so much time at the gym? To be healthy and fit! So chances are if you're hitting on us, we're pulling it off and doing it right. That would be some validation! Plus, if you feel like giving us some honest attention while we are make up less and hair in a ponytail, then bring it on.

That's just my 2 cents on this.

* I now feel the need the qualify my response here. I am happily married. I am however not dead and do appreciate being hit on now and then to prove that point and boost the old married ego. I never said I would act upon being hit on. This opinion is not valid in AK, HI or Puerto Rico. This opinion does not have a .05 redemption value. This opinion however is free of any calories, saturated fat or complex cabohydrates.

[TiM]

So... LucyLulu.... what are you doing this weekend?

Seriously, thanks for that insight!!! We really value it. Having more ladies around to combat this "testoster-zone" is refreshing...especially in topics like these!! If you'd like to add your input on "lady matters" anytime, I won't stop ya!! Good going!!

btw... hair pulled back and make-up-less is always better. ...right up there with curlers! yes, serious!

[jim623]

I see a ring on that finger lucy, you're married and still want to be hit on at the gym, shame shame.